Wine reeler

Proverbs, Chapter 20, Verse 1

Wine is a mocker, strong drink a riotous brawler; and whoever errs or reels because of it is not wise.

How context appropriate for this May 20, 2013! What to do if the drinking is out of control? What if the person has some personality disorder? Obviously there are solutions, and effective ones, like AA. However alcohol blended with a personality disorder is a ticking explosive. How does one disarm that device?